My perspective on a different lifestyle. I like to travel, I have MS, I am a techie, a vintage travel trailer owner, a land owner, a full time nomad, and I write. Instagram #2pupcrew
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Wednesday, December 18, 2013
What Happens When Someone Dies
But what happens when a person dies with no will and no life insurance? I urge everyone here to put their wishes in writing. Even a dated signed letter would have helped. But there is nothing for us that stated her wishes definitively.
It is the responsibility and privilege of the children to make the final arrangements. That includes contacting a funeral home, arranging the service, paying for it. In the state of Michigan, if there is no will or arrangements, a majority of the children must sign so that the services and arrangements can go forward.
Unfortunately, my mother's children do not all agree on what should be done. This may lead to a legal intervention since we cannot leave her body in the morgue. We are doing what we can to move forward on this. Today was supposed to be her memorial service. now it has been delayed.
i am on a fixed income with no savings. the funeral chapel was very understanding and gave us a very good rate for a cremation and a small memorial service.But, it must be paid up front in advance.
So I am selling all my Native American Jewelry and my Vintage Jewelry. Photos can be seen at :
http://twitpic.com/photos/StephTravels
I can accept credit cards through PayPal and PayPal of course.
https://www.paypal.com/
Sunday, September 8, 2013
I've Gone Truly Mobile!
I've sold my compact car and replaced it with a cargo van!
I purchased an extended body van. I'm planning on making it into a conversion van.
In the rear of the van will be two dedicated storage areas. One area is for all items needed for live venues such as fairs, flea markets, and such. The other area is for my ebay business.
The van will also have sleeping, working, and sitting areas. Before any conversion construction can occur, the van will have to be insulated.
A divider will be installed behind the front seats. This both provides safety and privacy.
As I write this, I sit in the rear of the van, organizing and sorting two businesses as well as items for dancing at pow wows and the few personal things I need for myself.
The purchase of the van will effectively give me a highly mobile business as well as a tiny RV. I'm very excited about this new phase of my life. It will allow me to continue my businesses as well as pursue my love of writing and photography.
Happy Trails.
Monday, August 26, 2013
Meandering
It never occurred to me that I march to the beat of a different drummer.
I don't do things on a routine, nor do I place value on how many things I can do in a day.
This is not to say that I don't get things done. I tend to stay busy, but at a much slower pace than most people.
I've opted out of the rat race. I have learned the concept of *enough*.
How many places can you be at one time? How much stuff do you really need?
I found that I place value on my time and energy. I do not see the point of chasing stuff and buying more places to put my stuff.
I recently downsized my stuff and I'm downsizing it still more. I still have a half full 5x5 storage. I'm buying a cargo van for buying/selling trips and camping. My ideal is to reduce my possessions to only what I actually need and use.
I've actually made a little business out of my downsizing. That's where I got my inventory to start flea marketing and being an eBay vendor. I will know I've got it just right when all stuff I'm selling fits in 1-2 totes.
Selling my excess stuff is helping pay for my van. I'll be doing the interior modifications myself so that the space both reflects my style and meets my need to have things accessible in a calm, tranquil, uncluttered environment.
I'm going to look at going back into my photography as a for-profit venture. I think I can market my photos as screen savers and backgrounds.
When I designed websites, I made all my own original background images.
As usual, I've started on one topic and meandered. I guess I like wandering through life with my eyes and ears open.
Happy Trails.
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Camping but still working:-)
I'm still camping but in between making a fire for hot coffee in the morning and heating water for washing up, I still manage to be somewhat productive.
I've been listing items on eBay. There is a little bit more than a badly composed photograph and a sparse listing.
First I have to come up with a descriptive title. Photographs can be challenging but I have so much more to work with out here.
I've been using some nice pieces of birch bark to photograph knives on. It makes my listing stand out.
Writing the description for the item being sold takes some thought. I want to be accurate but also I want them to enjoy reading it. It should tell all about my item and answer why my item for sale should be bought. What makes that item special? That is what the description should also address.
I also have to research prices. What have similar items sold for in the past. What is the right format take my chance on auctions or set a fixed price.
Once the item is listed, then I just check it twice a day. When it sells, fast shipping time sets me above many other sellers. I strive for a 24 hour or less response time.
I always ship with a tracking number. That proves the item was shipped and when it was delivered.
While I miss the personal interaction and chance to highlight all an item 's good points in person, while I'm healing from being hit by a trailer, this allows me to still do some business.
It is almost sunset, so I'm going to heat some water for a camp bath.
I must say, the view from my office is beautiful!
Happy Trails.
Monday, June 3, 2013
Getting Ready to Take a Trip or The RoadTrip Blues
It started out by scaring the living daylights out of me. It would start, and then the key was hard to turn. So I asked someone to look at it. It started up perfectly every time he turned the key....until I went to drive him home.
The first repair was pretty mild as repairs go. The starter needed replacing. I was lucky, the part was only $100 installed.
The next thing to go was the muffler. The car got louder and louder. My car didn't have a muffler on it, it had something round, but it wasn't a muffler. I'm still confused at exactly what it was. So I got a muffler off a wrecked car from a junkyard and some sort of shade tree mechanic put it on for me.
It took two tries to get the non-working lighter socket fixed. I needed to have the ability to charge my cellphone and to power a gps device. That entailed buying an inexpensive part and having it put in. There's where it got complicated. Two wires, three wires, shorts, and a small cut in my dash that had to be filled in.
I am geographically challenged and I love to travel. Therefore, I need a gps device.
OK, I can actually hear the guys reading this laughing and wondering what kind of an idiot I am. I am a girl who can make windows behave with one hand behind my back (or holding a cup of coffee.) I can budget money within an inch of it's life without picking up an ink pen. I can whip up a meal that will make your mouth water, but yes, I am a car idiot.
My only hope is to find an honest mechanic who will baby my high mileage car and help me keep it from costing me an arm and a leg. I really do understand the theory of an internal combustion engine. But, add four wheels and gasoline, a few noises, and I am hopeless. What's even worse is that as soon as someone starts explaining what the repair entails or what will happen if I don't fix this thing, my eyes glaze over and my head implodes.
I am getting ready for a road trip. I have a minute leak in my head gasket, the coil is cracked, I have to re-do the oil change because of this repair, and of course the radiator needs a flush and fill. ARRRGGGGHHH!
On the plus side, it is my understanding that my car will ease up on noise and needed repairs. There are a few minor things that need fixing, but they are not real high anxiety items. Replacing a hose or a wire doesn't faze me near as much as all these current repairs.
All I want is for my car to be a nice little car, go down the road without making noises, requiring any repairs, and not to drink too much gasoline. Gauges, Temperatures, and Fluid Levels, Oh MY. Lions and tigers and bears Oh MY!
Thanks for reading. Next Stop -Michigan.
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Live Like You Are Dying.
Many years ago, in a state far, far, away, I had 5 women that were very close to me and to each other. Betty was one of them, and so was Holly. Today I found out that the second of those women has died from cancer.
The first one, Betty, I took care of her in her home, until it was time for her to enter a hospice.
Betty was a character to say the least. but when I ran into her after not seeing her for a few years, it was obvious that she was not doing well. She had breast cancer that spread all through her body. Although it was a non-smoking building, residents would go outside to smoke. Betty was so weak that she would sneak smokes in her apartment. I got some food into her after three days. She hadn't been able to eat for months. A day after that, i cooked a rib eye steak. i had to caution her to slow down since she hadn't eaten in so long. From then on, Betty was constantly eating.
I had a little car. I would put Betty in my car and we would go and get a McDonald's for her. Heaven help us all if they didn't put enough dill pickles on it.
I took Betty to her first pow wow. she loved it. She lived those last six months. In spite of the many nights we would end up in the emergency room with shot after shot of dilaudid. Betty's cancer had gotten into her spine.
Betty was very much a smoker. the doctors would try to get her to quit. Betty was dying of cancer and we would laugh at the doctors saying "Or What? I'll get cancer and die!? Oh yeah, I have cancer and I'm dying." Laughter was our way of snatching moments of sanity and reality away from that artificial world of medical management.
Betty died as she lived, full of both faith and spunk.
I think the best gift I gave my friend was my time. We were also able to talk about dying. Most people are afraid to talk about it.
But Betty and I both remembered when they told me I had lung cancer and that the odds of dying were 97% from 6 months to five years. I was lucky. Either it was a mistake, or I got my own little miracle. Every day since then has been a gift. Betty died in January. An ex of mine died from alcoholism in February, less than a month before I was going to take him to see his daughters. Today I found out Holly had died and was buried. My eyes are burning from tears and my throat is sore. I know it was a relief for Holly, those last few months were rough. I miss her. I am trying to be glad for her, her pain and struggles are over. In January we had our last long conversation. We got to say everything we needed to say to each other. I said one thing to her that I will always remember-- "I knew you before you had a halo."
I have Multiple Sclerosis. Often people will act as if I am a saint and so very brave. But, everyone lives with something. I am luckier than a few of my friends.
I remember Holly saying to me in a small tired voice "trade you."
Running through my head right now are some of the lyrics of a song "..live like you were dying.."
That is how I have to live my life. At one time, I was told I faced a certain death. I am not dying of cancer and every day, I live, I live, I live.
Monday, May 27, 2013
Flea Market Surprises
I have been a vendor at flea markets for some time now.When I decided to travel, to examine my values, I found that many items were no longer a necessary part of my life. I started selling at markets to get rid of excess clothes and household goods from my storage unit. I found that I loved having my own business. Many of the items I had were too good to throw away. I had many things left over from lifestyle changes. I used to have a house on two acres with several outbuildings and a large basement. I did not need every brand new kitchen appliance, nor vast amounts of antique glass serving bowls suited to family dinners of ten or more people.
In short, I had an abundance of good quality items that I no longer needed, and I was paying large amounts to store things for a house I no longer planned to buy. There were things such as an antique oak rocker, a large Ashley wood-stove, an antique walk behind tractor, and many other pieces that would be a welcome addition to someone else's household, but no longer needed for the lifestyle I envisioned.
As I downsize yet again, I am now selling not only the Native American jewelry that is my passion, but also excess appliances, designer jeans that I can't wear anymore due to the newly found appetite and the excellent food offered in the delta area of Louisiana.
There is another dealer next to me who specializes in computers and tools. He has been passing on to me his jewelry that he gets offered. I have a scale, a jeweler's loupe, and a lifetime of buying and appreciating fine jewelry.
I visually inspect the jewelry, weigh it on a scale, check the spot gold price or the spot price on sterling silver. At that point, I either offer him a price, or sell it on consignment for him. By being honest in my dealings, and being at market every weekend, I get opportunities on fine jewelry.
As I write this, I am wearing the 14k gold and diamond tennis bracelet that i chose to keep for myself after offering him a fair price for it. I found the vintage Waltham watch last week. The young lady told me it needed a battery. It is a vintage winding watch. I wound it and it has been keeping perfect time on my wrist. I'm a little bit of a vintage piece myself.
I have people that stop by regularly to see what I have found in my search for real Native American jewelry. I also carry vintage rhinestone jewelry in great condition.
Today I sold an Eisenberg Green Ice Necklace in mint condition to another dealer.
Who knew that decades of window shopping at good jewelers would give me the needed skills to buy and sell beautiful jewelry on my own.
I truly believe that many housewives underestimate what skills they have learned and how it applies in business. Twenty years ago, I was a housewife, thinking I had no marketable skills. Today, I travel, write, and own my own small business. I love the change in my life.
Thank you for stopping by to read my thoughts. Happy Trails.
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Random Thoughts
I sit here in the RV, getting ready to move temporarily into an apartment.
The situation with the other person here deteriorates on a daily basis. I will stay with a friend while I save for my own unit and a van to pull it.
I'll be sorting things into items to keep and flea market stock. I'm downsizing again!
The nice thing about my nomadic lifestyle is an awareness of how few possessions are really necessary.
Things do not make me happy. Life, friends, my dogs, traveling, these things are important to me.
I just reserved a 5x10 storage unit through www.sparefoot.com
It was easy to compare rates and I chose to make a call to reserve it. I could have done it online. I will be using it to store items while I sort them and sell the excess at a flea market.
I know this change is right for me because I feel a lightness in my soul as if a burden had lifted from my shoulders.
I am amazed how little it takes to make me happy. I know that my happiness depends solely on me and my actions. No other person or thing can make me unhappy. I accept full responsibility for my own feelings and I know that if I am unhappy, it is because of a choice I have made or an action I have taken. Cleaning up my messes is part of being an adult.
It is still comfortable here at a pleasant 79 degrees. I have a few more things to do before the heat of the day.
So I will wish all a pleasant day and thank you for stopping by to read my meananderings.
Monday, May 20, 2013
A Weekend At The Flea Market
Authenticated Items. |
It was impressive to see how many people are interested in knowing the difference between authentic native made and non-native made Native style jewelry.
Just by looking at a piece, it is easy to distinguish the care and workmanship that go into crafting a piece of Native American jewelry.
There are many laws that a person has to be cognizant of when selling Native American jewelry or crafts. In order to be considered Native American jewelry or crafts, the person who made it must be a member of a federally recognized tribe. Just because your grandmother may have been Native American doesn't mean you may make and sell items as Indian crafted.
There have been many recent news items regarding branding or infringement of Native American images or names. We wouldn't blink an eye if someone was charged with counterfeiting Microsoft or iPhone items, but we feel we must have an opinion on whether it is OK to use an image or name that may mislead people in thinking the item has a connection with Native Americans? Let's not indulge in mental gymnastics designed to make it acceptable to steal someone else's name, reputation, or brand for money.
It is important to know who you purchase from and how they authenticate their items. In addition to materials, styles, patina that i can observe by a visual inspection, there are several ways I try to ensure that the items I sell are actually Native American made.
When I can, I buy direct from tribe members on a few reservations. I consider any item I purchase from an enrolled tribe member who represents to me it is native made and from their reservation to be authentic.
I buy many vintage items and research them myself. I have a few select vendors online that I am very comfortable with any description that they give me in regards to vintage Native American jewelry.Any item I purchase from an expert in the field of Native American jewelry, the artists, and their styles is also considered by me to be authentic.
I try to purchase only from sources that have integrity in how they represent their items.
There are many beautiful items I sell that are native style. They are more likely than not made by native artisans. I sell them as native style jewelry and I guarantee the metals and stones to be what they are.
The people who are interested in good Native jewelry tend to ask how I know that a piece is genuinely native made. I do everything I can to ensure that the information I give them is accurate. I also offer a full refund if it turns out my assessment was inaccurate.
I have separate cases for the items that are authenticated Native American jewelry or crafts. Any item sold as such is not only guaranteed as to what materials are in it, but also to be an authenticated Native American item. It is good for business, and it is good for my character.
I was thrilled to find out that several of my customers were actually Native American tribe members. I was invited to be a vendor at next year's Pow Wow. I will have to make that decision closer to that date. I do like the idea of being a vendor at a Pow Wow, but I also love going to Pow Wows.
Happy Trails
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Technology Has It's Moments
Today was an Attack or Revenge Of The Computers kind of day.
It all started out so innocently. No one could forecast how fast it would snowball. I almost wonder if the amount of technology had enough critical mass today to awake and become self aware.
All I wanted to do was transfer my completed first drafts of children's books I am writing from my netbook to my laptop. It's a simple process that we all do routinely.
Usually the process goes very smoothly. Today was quite an exception.
The first was barely a blip on my personal radar. Google+ implemented changes that threw many users into one of two categories. People either experienced severe what-the-heck-did-they-do-wheres-my trauma reactions or OH COOL PUSH ALL THE BUTTONS giddiness. No problem here, I have writing to do, I'll see what G+ did later when it settles down.
Next, my broadband informed me I needed to download an update. Still no real reason to worry, it's a routine matter, or so I thought.
Now comes the notice "Don't Unplug or Shutdown Your Computer. Doing so could cause permanent damage to your firmware." Arggggghhh! I make sure my cord is secure from puppy who chews any cord available.
I get the update installed. It's now time for coffee. I click shutdown the computer. My normally polite well behaved toshiba has decided to download and install eight critical updates for Windows. It is time to install the Linux I've been using from a jump drive. Just not today.
All that being said, instead of pushing on in a day where every piece of technology I have decided to revolt all at one time, I pushed the power button off. I hooked them all up to charge.
There is something to be said for a low tech day. I enjoyed cuddling my dogs, a cold Pepsi, and a good paperback.
In the back of my mind, I wonder, how many electrons do they need to become self aware? Are they haunted by old Commadore64 and TRS80 hard drives? I do keep interfacing lots of devices. Could they strike on me?
Not really, but it was in the cards to turn them all off for a day.
Thanks for reading.
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Yes I Live In A RV Full-time- By Choice
Yes, I Live Full Time In A RV...by Choice
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
I use a small stick broom vacuum that can also be used as a handheld Dustbuster. I prefer a good whisk broom and dustpan to a traditional broom. instead of a mop, i use a bucket and cloths to wipe up the floors. I also store my supplies in different places than i would in a traditional home.
We have added a small built-in under the sink to hold a small standard wastebasket. We use an office type wastebasket rather than the traditional plastic kitchen wastebasket. by attaching a U shaped wood holder on the under sink door, it frees up wasted space under the sink. Storage is important in a RV, and making effective use of space allows me to live better in a small unit than in a larger unit or a house.
I'll be adding more blogs on tips and tricks to living comfortably in a RV or Travel Trailer whether parked in a RV park or dry camping in a dispersed camping area.
Monday, May 13, 2013
The Local Flea Market
I spent yesterday as a vendor at the local flea market.
Setup was a bit pricey, but it was a covered outdoor market with a local police officer on duty all day.
The flea market gives you one table with the option of renting additional tables for your area at a nominal fee. You also have a good parking space just behind your stall.
There is good foot traffic and a hot food concession stand. A drawing for vendors is also available.
I set up with three small jewelry display cases and some neatly folded jeans I had outgrown thanks to the excellent cuisine in the delta area.
Customers were greeted with a smile and an invitation to view native american jewelry I had purchased from an enrolled member of the Navajo Nation online.
People were genuinely interested in knowing about the jewelry, the artisans, and in the challenges that tribes face in maintaining a quality life bettering those members of their tribe while keeping their values intact.
I quickly made it clear that I was not raising money for a reservation but I purchased directly from people on reservations so that I could assure myself of authenticity as well as supporting people who are doing for themselves. I positively enjoyed calling a friend in Michigan on the My Pleasant reservation and arranging to have small dreamcatchers made. The dreamcatchers will each come with a card from the artist for the customer. This will assure my customers that they are buying something handmade on the reservation and the members of the tribe appreciate the care I take to comply with federal laws that protect native goods from cheaper counterfeit goods.
When people go to a flea market, they are often sold cheap goods, but I know many vendors who retail quality items that are not knockoffs. I know only one person who was put in prison for selling fake Nikes. He served five years.
I feel that people are willing to pay for genuine goods that last. I also feel that running a business honestly and representing what you sell honestly pays off in increased sales and repeat customers. You don't have to hard sell a quality item. The beauty of a flea market is lower overhead resulting in lower prices for the customer while ensuring profit for the vendors.
Friday, May 10, 2013
Currently Boondocked In Lousiana
I am currently in a somewhat rural area of Louisiana. There are many different things to get used to here. Overall, I like it and I like the people I meet. The trees here have a strange beauty. Spanish moss hangs off some of them, they remind me of the old sepia toned vignetted photos. I have been here long enough to watch the trees go from barren to fully leaved. I am enchanted with the area and I enjoy discovering both the natural side of life here and the people.
I am about two miles from the Mississippi River. New words have entered my life and my vocabulary: flash floods, levee, hurricane, these are all common occurrences here. I know people that stayed during Katrina. They tend to compare hurricanes like you or i might compare fishing or seasons. I have now given serious thought to what preparations are necessary to ensure some level of comfort in any emergency weather situation. Prepping is not just for right wing activists, but is a real necessity for anyone living where the weather can wipe out many things we take for granted.
I am near a factory so I thought the sounds that I heard at night of a rhythmic humming were from the factory. imagine my surprise to find i was listening to the nightly vocalizations of a gator, and a rather sizable one at that. I was told there was nothing to worry about since the gator was at least 500 feet away but judging from the sounds and vocalization he was a big one. Oh My!
Walking my chihuahua at night can be an adventure due to the local wildlife. This area is host to alligators, loggerhead turtles (sharp beak, can bite your finger off), eagles, armadillos, and adorable gecko type lizards. I also enjoy the many dragonflies flitting about as if they had not a care in the world.
Life has a different pace down here.